Cincinnati Friends Monthly Meeting

of the Religious Society of Friends

 

Meeting for Worship

 

2nd Month, 19th Day, 2012

 

 

Seeking God daily through integrity, simplicity, community, equality and peace ~

 

An Open and Affirming Congregation

 

 

2nd Month, 19th Day

Meeting for Worship

Centering Down

 

From the Lectionary ~ 2 Corinthians 1:18-22 NEB

Christ Jesus…was not a mixture of Yes and No. With him it is always Yes; for all the promises of God have their Yes in him. That is why, when we give glory to God, it is through Christ Jesus that we say “Amen.” And if you and we belong to Christ, guaranteed as his and anointed, it is all God’s doing; it is God also who has set his seal upon us and, as a pledge of what is to come, has given the Spirit to dwell in our hearts.

 

To say Yes to life is at one and the same time to say Yes to oneself. Yes- even to that element in one which is most unwilling to let itself be transformed from a temptation into a strength.

 

To be free, to be able to stand up and leave everything behind- without looking back. To say Yes-

 

I don’t know Who- or what- put the question, I don’t know when it was put.  I don’t even remember answering.  But at some moment I did answer Yes to Someone- or Something- and from that hour I was certain that existence is meaningful and that, therefore, my life, in self-surrender, had a goal.

 

For all that has been, thanks. For all that will be, yes.

 

Your own efforts “did not bring it to pass,” only God- but rejoice if God found a use for your efforts in His work.

 

Be grateful as your deeds become less and less associated with your name, as your feet ever more lightly tread the earth.

 

-From the diary of Dag Hammerskjold

Secretary General of the United Nations, 1953-1961

 

 

2nd Month, 19th Day

Meeting for Worship

Announcements


 

TODAY

12:30-1:30 ~ Comfort of Friends Group

Soup will be served.  We are using as a focus/starting point for discussion the book by Joan Halifax, Being with Dying: Cultivating Compassion and Fearlessness in the Presence of Death. You may join the discussion whether or not you have read the chapter.  (The book has short chapters, and we’re only on Chapter 2.)

 

4:00-5:30 ~ Quaker Conversation Group

Topic:  “Living Our Quaker Values in the Work Place: A History of Quakers & Business”

 


             

2012 “Bucket Brigade for Bethany House (February 5, 12, and 19) ~ TODAY is the Last Day of our current collection of cleaning & personal hygiene items for Bethany House.

Any time today before 5:30 p.m., you may bring by the meetinghouse: mops, brooms, floor cleaning products, counter cleaning products, laundry detergent, dishwashing soap, paper towels, sponges, dishcloths, dish towels, plastic or rubber gloves, face soap, shampoo, stuffed animals, etc. 

Cincinnati Friends have provided household supplies for disadvantaged families in the past, and the Peace & Social Concerns Committee is hopeful you will again respond to the needs.

 


 

MARK YOUR CALENDARS: 

 

Wilmington Yearly Meeting Mini-Yearly Meeting, Feb. 23-24, in Wilmington, Ohio. 

 

Miami-Center Quarterly Meeting, Sunday, March 4, 2012 at Campus Meeting in Wilmington.

For more details, call the Cincinnati Friends Meeting office.

 


                  

QUAKER QUEST ~ At Meeting for Worship with Attention to Business on Feb. 12, the Meeting expressed general approval of bringing Quaker Quest to Cincinnati Friends Meeting, pending the confirmation of details regarding cost and other arrangements. The decision of whether or not to give final approval was carried over to next month’s Meeting for Worship with Attention to Business.  Still time to give your input!

 


 

QUAKER KNOLL SUMMER CAMP:  It may seem too soon to start thinking about summer camps, but Wilmington Yearly Meeting’s Quaker Knoll Summer Camp is gearing up. Camps will run by age-groups week-by-week from June 18-July 9 this summer. 

        Quaker Knoll needs volunteers for the following positions: Camp Coordinator, Camp Intern, Camp Counselors and Counselors-in-Training, FAPs (Friendly Adult Presences), and Kitchen Help.  Applications for these positions are due to the yearly meeting office by Feb. 20, 2012.  For application forms and job descriptions, please see Donne Hayden; for more information, see Donne or contact the WYM office at 937-382-2491.

Pre-register your child for Quaker Knoll Summer Camp by May 1, 2012 and receive an “early bird” discount.  (See Donne for application forms.)  The Meeting provides financial help for the children of members/attenders who wish to attend Quaker Knoll.

 


 

~ PEACE & SOCIAL CONCERNS ~

 

Campbell’s Soup Labels &

“Box Tops for Education”

 

Save these items for MOWA Choctaw Friends Center in Alabama.  This is a ministry of North Carolina Yearly Meeting of FUM.  It was founded in 1984 by the Associated Committee of Friends on Indian Affairs.  Programs offered include:  After School Program for Kindergarten through fifth grade, Weekly Youth Groups, Weekly Rummage Sale, Monthly Community Potluck Meals, Emergency Assistance and Food Pantry, Summer SOUL Program (Serving Others, Unleashing Love), Work Projects in the Community and at the Center, and Other Community Activities (Fall Festival, Pig Pickin', Basketball Tournament). 

Pinned to the bulletin board outside the meetinghouse library is a yellow manila envelope along with a detailed list of where to find box tops and labels. If you have some to donate, please put them in the manila envelope on the bulletin board or leave them in the Peace and Social Concerns mailbox.

 


             

You have lived with us long, known our hates,
Our sorrows, the reason for our loves.
You have seen the children of the land
Cry out with hunger, both of mind and heart,
Their eyes staring at their cruel fates....

--May Mansoor, Ramallah Friend

 

Ramallah Friends Schools: A Century of Friends Witness

 

The Ramallah Friends Schools have served the youth of Palestine and witnessed to Quaker values in the midst of conflict and adversity for more than a century. Today, there are two campuses located 10 miles north of Jerusalem. The former Friends Girls School, now a coeducational elementary school, is situated on a tree-shaded, 3 ½-acre campus on the edge of Ramallah, the old, close-built neighborhood of arched stone houses and shops built by the Christian founders of the town. The former Boys School - now the coeducational secondary school - with its gardens, athletic fields, and stands of stately Allepo Pines, occupies ten acres in Ramallah's Muslim twin city, El-Bireh. Graceful old classroom buildings of yellowed Jerusalem limestone, capped with red tile roofs, testify to the benevolence of past generations of Friends.  More than 950 students from kindergarten through grade twelve receive a rich and rigorous education in Arabic and English, preparing them for caring, creative lives and further study at leading colleges and universities around the world.

Palestinian Society in all its diversity comes together at the Friends Schools. In an atmosphere informed by Quaker insights and testimonies, an important social dialogue can take place, fostering the freedom, understanding, tolerance, and unity which are so essential to the task of nation building.

Cincinnati Friends Meeting supports The Ramallah Friends School with an outreach donation of $350.00 annually.

 


 

Ramallah Friends Boys School

 

The Ramallah Friends Boys School is the coed upper school for students in grades 7-12 in Ramallah, Palestine. Joyce Ajlouny, director of the schools, is looking forward to a visit in November from a team of educational experts from the International Baccalaureate Organization (IBO) in Switzerland. They are coming to assess the school's readiness to implement the IBO's Middle Years Program (MYP) for grades 7-10, a program the school has been working on for the past five years. (The school is already certified for the program in grades 11-12.) If successful, the school will be an MYP accredited school, which is a very prestigious and praiseworthy thing!

Please support the Ramallah Friends Boys School with your prayers throughout this month:

1. Pray for the smooth beginning of the school year and for all our students, wishing them a fun and productive year.
2. Pray for our seniors as they prepare for their International Baccalaureate exams and start the college application process.
3. Pray for our new teachers who have arrived from afar to serve our community. Pray that they adjust well and quickly feel part of our family.
4. Pray for the smooth and quick implementation of our USAID/ASHA grant.
5. Pray for the successful culmination of our long awaited for commercial development project.
6. Pray for our school principal, teachers and staff, wishing them strength, wisdom and satisfaction as they see through the education process.
7. Pray for our community as a whole and for peace to prevail in our troubled land.

*Each month through December 2012, we will focus on a different ministry of Friends United Meeting. This "Ministry of the Month" corresponds with the FUM wall calendar that is available for $15 from the Friends United Press Shopping Center.

 

 


       

“Study War Some More (If You Want To Work For Peace)” (Booklet)

A Review by Patti Moore

 

    This is a thought-provoking, if somewhat difficult, booklet to read.    

    The author, Chuck Fager, Director of Quaker House in Fayetteville, N.C., proposes that by “Study(ing) War Some More,” we can find out what makes the military so successful at making war, and then we can use these same strategies to be successful at bringing an end to war (or at least at end to U.S. involvement in war). 

    He believes that a “Spirit of War” (an overall pervading approval of war-like attitudes and behaviors) exists in the U.S., and that if peacemakers are to defeat this “Spirit,” they must use the same tools the military does, including big-picture strategic planning.

    Since this booklet is a call to long-term action, and long-term action requires a long-term strategy, studying the military way can also help with this.  Since the war machine is deeply embedded in the American way of life, we need long-term strategies to turn the tide around, and make peace the American way of life.  

    At the end of each chapter there are review questions that reinforce the text, and there is a list of selected readings and online resources printed in the back of the booklet, including a reference to The Dayton (Ohio) International Peace Museum.

    The booklet is not always politically correct and the spacing of the typing makes it difficult to read, but if you hang in there and read it to the end, I’m sure that you will find the reading worth your trouble, and it may even hold a call to your own action.

 

 


 

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CFM CALENDAR 

February 19- March 25, 2012

 

 

FACING BENCH ~ FEBRUARY ~ JEFF ARNOLD

 

SUN.

Feb. 19

10:00

11:00

 

12:00 noon

12:30 – 1:30

4:00 – 5:30

Adult Discussion Group

Meeting for Worship

Message ~ Donne Hayden

Fellowship in Fireside Room

“Comfort of Friends” Group 

Quaker Conversation Group ~

         Topic:  Quakers & Business

 

Tues. Feb. 21

7:00-8:30

Turtlebox Group

 

Thurs. Feb. 23

6:30-8:30

Quakerism 101 Study Group

 

SUN.

Feb. 26

10:00

11:00

 

12:00 noon

Adult Discussion Group

Meeting for Worship

Message ~ Donne Hayden

Fellowship in Fireside Room

Peace & Social Concerns Committee

 

Tues. Feb. 28

7:00-8:30

7:00

Turtlebox Group

Kabbalah Study Group

 

SUN.

Mar. 4

10:00

11:00

 

12:00 noon

Adult Discussion Group

Meeting for Worship 

Message ~ Donne Hayden

Potluck Lunch & Fellowship

 

Tues. Mar. 6

7:00-8:30

Turtlebox Group

 

Wed. Mar.  7

6:30

Ministry & Counsel

 

Fri. Mar. 9

6:30-8:30

Young Friends Game Night

 

SUN.

Mar. 11

10:00

11:00

 

12:00 noon

Adult Discussion Group

Meeting for Worship 

Message ~ Donne Hayden

Meeting for Business

 

Tues. Mar. 13

7:00-8:30

Turtlebox Group

 

SUN.

Mar. 18

10:00

11:00

 

12:00 noon

12:30 – 1:30

4:00 – 5:30

Adult Discussion Group

Meeting for Worship

Message ~ Donne Hayden

Fellowship in Fireside Room

“Comfort of Friends” Group 

Quaker Conversation Group

 

Tues. Mar. 20

7:00-8:30

Turtlebox Group

 

Thurs. Mar. 22

7:24 p.m.

Donne leaves for Kenya

 

SUN.

Mar. 25

10:00

11:00

 

12:00 noon

Adult Discussion Group

Meeting for Worship

Message ~

Fellowship in Fireside Room

Peace & Social Concerns Committee